Setting up a new AI app with your kid

Before You Begin: Know What You're Letting In

Before downloading any AI app, check the privacy policy, age rating, and what data it collects. Many AI apps retain conversations, use data for training, or serve ads. Look at reviews from parents—not just app store ratings. Ask yourself: What's the genuine benefit here? Is it educational, creative, or primarily entertainment? This helps you set realistic expectations and know what to monitor.

First Session: Stay Present and Set Boundaries

Sit with your child during the initial setup. Watch how they interact with it. Most AI apps benefit from clear ground rules established upfront: What topics are off-limits? How long can they use it daily? Is it for homework help only, or open-ended chatting? Younger children (under 10) should only use AI apps with active co-use; even then, keep sessions brief and supervised. Older kids can use independently, but check in regularly about conversations.

Ongoing: Spot-Check and Adjust

Periodically look at chat history if the app allows it. If your child seems emotionally dependent on the AI, or treats it as a substitute for real friendships, that's a signal to pause and refocus on human connection. AI apps can be helpful tools—not replacements for judgment, critical thinking, or your guidance.

This is general parenting guidance, not clinical advice.